12:25 p.m. - 05.05.05
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Date: Wed, 4 May 2005 16:59:14 -0700 From: "A" To: "anthony b. riva" Subject: Re: yo so why are you single? :P -----
Date: Wed, 4 May 2005 20:19:06 -0700 (PDT) From: "anthony b. riva" Subject: Re: yo To: "A"
why? i'm not sure why. maybe i haven't found that "relationship" somebody yet. maybe i haven't been ready for a relationship. maybe i'm just not the relationship type. maybe everyone i date or have an interest in doesn't feel the same about me. maybe i just haven't had the time... i'm sure it could be a number of things. why are you single? why is anyone single really? don't get me wrong... i don't know if i believe that everyone should be in a relationship. i think we're all capable of being single and happy. especially since all the propaganda about being in a relationship and finding "the one" is just a ploy to get straight people to marry and form family units to produce more babies that will serve the army that protects our country. ...now if that's not cynicism, i don't know what is! maybe i'm single because i'm a bit jaded about the point of it all... i'm in no means conventional by society's means, ie. being gay for one, so why should i live by society's conventions? ie. court/be courted, get married, have 2.5 kids, live in a house with a white picket fence... and maybe i'm single because i hadn't been sending out the right vibe. and until i'm truly indenpendent and happy being single, i won't exude the confidence to attract the right kind of people in my life who are relationship-oriented. also, the good relationships are when both people are able to stand on their own two feet not depend on each other for survival. leaving the two people in the relationship because they want to be there, caring for each other out of love, and not out of necessity. -----
Date: Wed, 4 May 2005 23:17:33 -0700 From: "A" To: "anthony b. riva" Subject: Re: yo
that was the best answer i ever got to this question. i'm impressed :) u scored high!
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